Girls felt pressured to do oral sex
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The youth TV 2 Nettavisen has talked to, both in Cyprus and in Norway; claim girls were pressed to perform oral sex on the controversial boat.
«Two British girls broke down afterwards, and cried for the rest of the evening because they had boyfriends back home,» said a 29-year-old man from Oslo, who went on the cruise some time ago. «It was evidently group pressure.»
Should be warned
Sexologist Gro Isaksen reacts to the described pressure. She claims youth should be warned that these things happen.
«Parents should at least talk to them before they leave, that these types of things do happen, particularly after what has been revealed in the media,» Isaksen said.
She said she thinks it is good that this is now being addressed.
TV 2 Nettavisen has gotten access to a video from one of the cruises, and it clearly shows that the crew and organizers of the cruise focus on sex. They push people to drink as much as possible and try to get people to make out with each other.
A man dressed as a cop walks around and handcuffs two and two randomly picked people together and the only way to get free is to make out with each other.
However, the film does not include the worst part, where girls have oral sex with random boys. While this takes place, the audience is filmed in stead, and people smile embarrassed and look shocked.
Difficult to say no
The boys TV 2 Nettavisen talked to told stories of orgy competitions, oral sex, indecent exposure, and stripping.
«We may call it group pressure, for the girls who were selected, were pulled up in front of the crowd, and it must take a lot to say no then,» said Frode Seglend, age 19.
When asked if they thought the girls knew what they had gotten themselves into the boys answered that they did not think so.
«No, we dont think so, and when they were ordered to get an erection on a boy in the shortest possible time, they started to discuss with each other,» said Kristoffer Sandvold, age 18. «It looked like they were considering whether or not to do it.»
Withstand the pressure
Isaksen claim that the youth in advance should consider what they are getting themselves into.
«They should think about what kind of limits they have before they participate on such cruises,» Isaksen said. «You are very vulnerable in a situation like that. Dont let yourself get pressured, and keep yourself within your limits. Remember that sex is supposed to be safe, healthy and mutually agreed.»
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